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20 Must Haves for the First Months


Things We Can't Live Without Right Now...

(In no particular order)


1
Twin Pac N Play

This thing is great! The girls sleep like babies in it. J  It is big enough for them to sleep in until they are several months old… or until I can handle putting them in their room.


2
Glow Worm and Glow Sea Horse
I know the girls will love them for the glowing aspect some day, but I love them for that reason now. I can see each girlie’s face without turning on a bright light.  They fall asleep listening to the white noise.

3
Colic Calm
We call this Baby Crack, The Good Stuff, or The Medicine! It is gripe water at its best! While researching it, there were a few negative comments about a sedative. It’s Lemon Balm people, which is considered a natural sedative because it is calming and relieves anxiety. I thought that was the whole point of gripe water… Anyway, thank the Lord that we’ve only needed to use it a handful of times.

4
Gerber Soothe
We’ve experimented with almost every formula, and this is very good for fussiness.

5
Medium Speed Nipples
These have saved me hours in feedings! The girls were falling asleep about every once with a slow nipple. Feedings went from almost 2 hours to about 30 minutes. 

6
Vibrating Bouncers
 
These are instant soothers! They are awesome spots for naps and just chilling! The girls have gotten a bit spoiled by the vibrating thought. :/ 

7
Swing
I read that I only needed one of these, but now I see that we are going to definitely need two (If you have one not being used, I’d love to take it off your hands!).  It is one of the only things, other than Colic Calm, that stops the evening screams! I don’t love that this swing is battery powered though.  I think Fisher Price is in cahoots with Energizer!

8
Aden and Anais Swaddlers 
My girls won’t sleep with their arms loose; they have to be swaddled tightly! These swaddlers are nice and big, but they are also made with very light linen material so they aren't super hot. I’ve heard that TJ Maxx has similar ones for a better price.

9
Paci Clips (Thanks Brittany; Sorry, I don’t what you have named them)
 
These are wonderful because they save the pacifiers from falling on the floor and getting lost!

10
Paci Decal (Thanks Amanda)
These help us to keep the pacifiers on the right baby. They also help people tell the babies apart without having to ask! J

11
Baby Stations
I keep one stocked with diapers, wipes, bibs, and hand sanitizer in the living room and the bedroom. It keeps me from having to leave one baby to take care of the other.

12
Boppy Pillows
I use these most when I have to feed the girls at the same time.  Put one baby on each side, and take turns feeding them until they both are both satisfied.

13
Sleep Training!
This book taught me a lot about scheduling sleeping and eating, and how to soothe the girls without training them to be held. A few tips; lay them down to sleep while they are drowsy but before they are asleep,  if they wake up and cry- DON’T automatically pick them up but soothe them quickly then walk away, and create a night time routine that helps the babies learn what to expect at bed time. I learned elsewhere to train the babies to nap anywhere. Lay them down in different spots for naps so they won't be picky/fussy nappers.

14
Twins 101
This book was written by a Pediatrician who had twins so I trust her advice more than other “twin experts” who are ladies who just had twins.  Best advice so far; KEEP THE TWINS ON THE SAME SCHEDULE- If one eats or sleeps, they both do.  All babies need routine, but twins do even more (mothers of twins do most)!

15
Kandoo Wipes
My girls are suffering from a bit of baby Eczema on their faces, and it is painful to just look at. L I try not to use wet wipes on their faces, but they get milk all over themselves when they eat! These wipes are for sensitive skin and they smell great!

16
A big supply of diapers and wipes
I don’t want to ever run out of diapers when in need.  This is the supply that I have from showers! It should last us until the girls are big enough to fill out their cloth diapers.  Then we’ll see how that goes…

17
Mesh Sock Bag (Thanks Crystal)
Never lose baby socks in the washer again!

18
Shout Spray and Wash
A yellow formula stain is nasty, and even nastier is a poop stain from a diaper blow out.  This stuff works great for both!

19
A surplus of bottles
I wash 8 bottles twice a day.  Right now, I’m using Playtex Ventaire and they are nice.  I have a butt load of Doctor Brown’s but I don’t have the level two nipples for them and can’t find any.  I’ll be using them when we’re ready for level three!

20
(Last but certainly not least!!!!)
COFFEE
 
Hot, iced, black, or with yummy creamer- as much as you can get. One positive of not breastfeeding is that I can drink all the coffee I want… or need.


A few things that I’m not a fan of…


Two piece outfits for newborns
 
The shirt ends up around around her neck all day.  So dumb.

This book
Written by a self proclaimed “twin expert”, this thing terrified me.  I thought I would cry for months, have double postpartum depression, and never figure out how to handle two babes.  I ended up quitting this read half way through when I realized that I was getting depressed and scared from reading it.


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I know there are lots of new mommies and soon-to-be mommies out there, so maybe my must haves will help you out. Maybe your must haves are totally different! Maybe you think I’m an idiot… to each his own, right?

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